The Interior Design Skill Not Taught In Design School

    Color Manipulation? Spatial Planning. Lighting. Fabric coordination? What is the #1 Skill - that if used properly and profoundly - will yield perfect results evey time? Wrong on all guesses. The answer is:



    Listening deeply. Hearing profoundly.



    These are items found on my website under the "Who We Are" page. I assure you it is not marketing jargon. (though...not bad as jargon goes!) It's what I do because I feel I must. Listen deeply, hear profoundly is not only my creed, but it is the only logical way to approach wise and excellent design - and to assure correct and ideal results.



    Listening Deeply, Hearing Profoundly...should be the obligation of any good, ethical and gifted person in my field. It is also regrettably the untaught art - either discounted or simply misunderstood - by many teachers in interior design. Listen Deeply....in order to Hear Profoundly...this is the obligation of any designer 'worth her fabric.'



    Listen deeply, hear profoundly is what allows me to translate into design lingo a beautiful use, re purpose or 're framing' of the disparate and unmatched elements in a home accumulated during the marvelous, different and important phases of a Life.



    Unlike the advise given to one of my client once by an Ethan Allen salesperson that she should 'get rid of it all and start her living room from scratch." This, said to to my wonderful client who freely shared in our 1st interview that she was fresh out of a painful divorce and now living in a new unfamiliar city in a new much smaller residence that felt like anything but home. This, said to this lovely client who showed me a most eclectic craving in her interiors, a love of things aged and imperfect and combined in unexpected ways. This, 'expert' advice, offered to a woman who clearly craved not only beauty and visual calm in her surroundings, but also the comfort of things familiar as she was thrust into her new home and life.





    From my perspective - all my client needed for the new living room she craved was to add to her existing furnishings by adding only a new sofa (she didn't own one), a coffee table or over sized ottoman to use as such, 1 additional end table, and various accessories/lamps to round it all out - warm it all up. These few items were all that was needed to pull it together warmly and beautifully and to the feeling/look she craved - until she was done in this rental phase and ready to set down roots. This was all she needed, rather than the long laundry list of furniture dictated by a furniture salesperson.



    Listen deeply, and hear profoundly. This is the skill allows me to translate into design the wishes and dreams and conflicting opinions a couple has about 'what they want for their conservatory.' She wants something mid century modern by all counts (not that she used this language with me, but it was quite clear in the photo images she shared) - and he wants something "French Provincial" so he said. But on paper, he really looked more like French Classicism...so...I'm going to try to take them to 'Paris' of a few time periods in order to marry both cravings of this terrific young married couple. But make no mistake. Their cravings go far beyond style. They each need pattern handled ia different way, same with color. But they are in alignment regarding texture and windows and which colors they are drawn to. (whew!) This is the information one must 'listen for" too.



    Listen deeply. Hear profoundly. It is an integral part of the 'sacred' to the work I do. It is central and it is non-negotiable. I used to cringe in design school every time a design teacher...and the head of the program too ....would sometimes insinuate that 'designer knows best, client is a boob.' Never said, but often implied by way of flippant remarks like. "Show them the French Blue and the Slate Blue - and then just take over, because clients don't know what they want or what they're doing."





    Listen deeply. Hear profoundly.




    Listen to what? To whom? Why, to the inner stirrings of the person whose home one is being asked to design.



    How do you listen? Wisely. Like a detective. With ears, eyes and intuition. I see clues and themes and guideposts amass like storm clouds in the wish photos clients show to me at the onset of project. I translate these wishes into design principal. The results are always magic.Source URL: https://interiordesignq.blogspot.com/2010/08/
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How To Survive Doing An Addition or Home Renovaton

    Or should I say, How to Survive Doing and Addition or Home Renovation...without taking aspirin... hitting that bottle of scotch and hitting it hard...or just sticking a fork in your eye.


    Oh peeps. If I had a dime for every client I've met with AFTER they've done their addition only to find that they:




    *Created a room with the wrong shape to accommodate their design dreams,


    *Created architectural blockades to using the space as they had dreamed and hoped,


    *Created a window nightmare...
    to name just a few things!




    If I had a time for all of these times...I'd have a lot of dimes. I've seen grown men nearly cry as they came to realize with me the grim reality that they had just proudly had built a $150,000 new room - or a $250,000 new room that is...well...wrong. Full of mistakes...and just not working right. A $250,000 3-6 month mistake. And a mistake that will just keep on 'giving.' Ouch.


    Sure I've got my designer bag of tricks, my brains, my ingenuity and when all else fails - a little magic sparkle fairy dust, but peeps...there are limits to CORRECTIVE design. And hey - why CORRECT when you're building from scratch? Why not build right the first time - get it right, avoid the overwhelm, spend your dollars wisely. I love wise design.


    When I can spend meaningful time with clients BEFORE they put nail to wood - hopefully before they meet with their design/build firm or architect - and a few times during the course of the project...Oh the things we can achieve.

    If you're even thinking of doing a home renovation or addition...or if you know somebody else who is - you'll want to head to my web site and register for the great teleseminar I'm doing in September called, appropriately..."HOW TO DO AN ADDITION: GET WHAT YOU WANT AND AVOID THE OVERWHELM." Join me and learn my 'aggita' saving techniques; hear from a builder with his own inside scoop to save you headache and hassel...Plus...have the pleasure of picking our brains before and during the call about your own project questions! We'll get you to where you need to go...to include helping you determine if moving is even right for you.
    I am so excited about this event! Be sure to head to the website to check it out - and do send everyone you know who might be heading toward the Construction Octopus to the web site as well.
    Great design happens thanks to Great Decisions. I'll get you there peeps. You know I will :)
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Design Style in Wise Design

    "What sign are you?" That remains the great, grating and nonsensical pick up line from the 70's and 80's, don't you think? Well let me respectfully add that "What style are you?" seems to be the design world equivolent...it won't get you far and next time you hear it, you have my permission to dramatically throw your mojito in somebody's face. :)


    Style discussions. They are just not enough. Style discussion are usually puddle deep - yet it's the pool everybody wants to swim in first and longest. When a new client races to tell me that he/she/they are "This Style" or "That" - I smile and nod. I know they believe that they are sharing something hugely important - and in some cases, that this discourse will somehow rush us to the finish line. Au contraire.


    "What style are you?" That's a question for a furntirue store salesperson to ask you when she's trying to size you up quickly in order to make a sales commission by selling you lots of furniture. Lots of HER furniture. And so to the cookie-cutter you will go.


    No, no. "What style are you?" This is not the quesiton in Wise Design.



    Here's why: The STYLE that a client 'rests in' becomes quite apparent to me in the first moments we spend together. In that early time together, we peruse the inspiration photos I invite all clients to gather to show me before we begin a project together. But peeps....let me share that I'm looking at those photographs for things that resonate far beyond style...information that is both more meaningful and exponentially useful. I even invite clients to pull out more than just room shots for their inspiration photos. I ask clients to pull out magazine pages showing ANY image they feel drawn to.

    What am I looking for? In short: Your fingerprint.

    As I review the pile of craving or wish photos - powerful thematics emerge that transcend style. Specifically, how do you - the client - like color handled? Not just WHAT colors - but where do you need color placed in an interior? How do you like or need color moved through a space? What about Pattern? Do you like it? Can you tolerate it? If so - what kind and where - on the floor? The upholstery? The windows? How much pattern do you crave - or can you take? Where are you on the texture scale. How do you relate to light? Shadow? How do you relate to space in general....do you need a lot of space above you and behind you like a chiropractor I worked with once...whose office was a study in anything but these spatial qualities. Or like another of my clients - do you need to be hugged by your interiors...deep sofas and window seats and places to perch. From there - I can create phenomenal interiors ...across a range of styles.

    Here's the pearl of wisdom: Any style - so long as it contains your design fingerprint will feel and look superbly wonderful to you. (and ironically - to everybody else too...but that's not important...) Use Wise Design and you will create interiors with 10 year staying power. 12 year staying power. Maybe more. These are not the rooms you will itch to redo in 4, 5, 7 years as many new clients who come to me are wishing to do. 10+ year staying power for your interiors....How "green" is that? What more wise way to direct your design dollar!

    It's time to wake up and turn off the home design shows. You can't wear somebody elses style any more comfortably than you wear somebody elses haircut or their sneakers. It will never feel 'right' or comfortable.

    As long as any given 'style' contains your unique design fingerprint...how you uniquely relate to all of the individual components that constitute design - you will win and you will win big. Your enjoyment of your home and surroundings will sky rocket; so will your overall sense of "quality of life" at home.

    Working in this precise and intuitive (and logical!) manner means that theoretically, I could do the same 'style' for 5 different clients/couples/families and the results would be remarkably different because each one would have such a different design fingerprint. All of my clients have a very different 'interiority.' Best of all - working in this way, you'll never create what looks and feels like an Ethan Allen showroom....nice, but sterile and soul-less.

    Your 'interiority' - your design fingerprint - is what resonates for you just underneath the pulse of style - whether traditional, country, cottage, French, mid-century modern and so on. Find it...listen to it. Find a designer who can find it if you can't.

    Style with a You. Put your interiority into your design discussions and watch things bloom. Know thyself woman. (Man, that goes for you too). It's the key to great design with great longevity.

    Source URL: https://interiordesignq.blogspot.com/2010/08/
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Decorating Style - Label or Limitation



    Style.


    Every client is so anxious to jump into a style discussion in our first interview - it could take your breath away. Who can blame them? It's part of the "language label" that is forced down our designing throats by magazines and HGTV. Kind of like a "What's your sign?" pick-up line but for interior design.

    When it comes to creating a spectacular interior - one that thrills my clients aesthetically and experiential-ly - and one that has 10-15 year staying power (no lie) - I say...Style Discussions are Not Enough. But that, my peeps, is a topic for another blog (Hint: Next week)


    No for now - let's look at how limiting design style labels are. I'll do so by way of sharing with you an interesting study I came across a while back about design style and the design style habits in our country. The breakout was as follows:



    *Traditional Style: generally found in the South West and Eastern Great Lakes



    *Casual Style: generally found in the South and Western States


    *Country Style: generally found in the North East and Midwest.

    "Country" here includes French, American, English, Shaker, Cottage, Mission)



    So where are you in there? Do you fit the labels? Do they fit you?



    Here are more!



    *38% of people will design in a Casual-Contemporary style


    *35% of people will decorate in a Traditional Style


    *27% of people will decorate/design in a Country Style.



    Do they mean all the time, in every room? In a 2nd home too? Are you in here yet?


    How about this?



    *People living in the North East are TWICE as likely to hire a professional interior designer.



    (Hmmmm.....that means I'm busy! Hold my calls!)




    People want labels: "I'm a people-person," "I'm a Leo." "I'm a neat-nick."


    But as your designer, I say - be very wary of labels...from the high end 'oh-daahling' labels for fashion and home (know why you want them so you can own them rather than them owning you). Beware of any labeled "concept" you slap on your forehead to label yourself personally. And yes... be careful not to use an indelible ink marker to write your design style label on your forehead either.



    From where I sit and from what I see - there is a lot of eclecticism out there. And heaven bless it. Dreary is the interior that adheres too strictly to 1 period, to 1 style so vehemently. Not only is eclectic the way of the day - but without knowing it - you're probably already there. Surprise.


    I remember being at a window installation for a client and walking in with 2 unexpected lamps to show her in order to finish of her just-about-completed "Traditional" "Urban-chic" Living Room we'd whipped up together during the preceding months.


    "Oh," she said with quiet alarm, "Those lamps are way too contemporary for me." As she said this, I caught a sideways glance from the head of my window workroom who was helping to put the finishing touches on the install. I could read in an instant that she too thought the same thing: Those lamps are too contemporary for in here.


    "Well, just look at them," I said lightly, as I set them up. "See them in the space and notice and feel what they do in the space and then tell me what you think."


    And so, I set them up, strategically primping the table tops upon which they rested in order to create excellent balance and line. Then, I turned on these lamp-marvels and stepped back. We all stepped back. The immediate consensus - "AHH! - those are really good in here!" (And I added in my head...I AM GOOOOOOD in here!!!" :) ) "Those lamps have really grown on me, " my client gushed...."I think I love them now."


    The lamps worked because they were carefully selected for their contrast and in this case - their lightness. The combination of contrasts was just perfect to make this particular living room go from beautiful to spectacular. Do you need a profesional to show you how to masterfully blend flavors and when and where it's appropriate, interesting or exciting to do so? Most likely - but hey - I can't give myself an eye exam. Nobody's perfect.



    So when next a new client speaks to me about their "Style" - and how they "Hate a certain style" - I will continue to listen, nod and smile. Knowing full well - that they are far more intricate and interesting - as people and as interior dwellers - then they even know. That they already own and live amongst a likely eclectic mix of things. And that together in our work - we'll do wonderful things - and OH!....the things they will learn about themselves as we walk the design path together!


    Style does not the woman make. The woman makes the style. It is all in how she orders & places a style: how and where she plays it and places it - and yes - reconstructs it. This is what makes the "babe have class." This is what makes the interior sing. Sensitivity to style - yes. But never strict, laborious adherence to it.



    Labels are limiting peeps. Use them amongst a wider breath of adjectives in order to communicate an idea but never as a definitive. Never as a limitation.

    Next week... a deeper look at how I coax fabulous interiors by working underneath my clients style... :) and in so doing - create rooms and interiors they love to look at and never want to leave.

    Source URL: https://interiordesignq.blogspot.com/2010/08/
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